Women's Ministries

at Salem Heights Church

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

"I am fearfully and wonderfully made"

Ladies enjoying fellowship and dessert time!

Some of the fun Fall decorations!

Last week, Laura Chica spoke at Ladies' Night Out and encouraged us through God's Word! A big lie women believe is "I'm not good enough!" How many of us at one time or another wished we were taller, or thinner, had blond hair, or even curly hair? Satan loves to put those lies into our heads! Laura says, "We live in a world where Satan wants us to believe in these lies. The world may say, "This is what you have to look like," but God wants us to think right in who we are and who He created us to be." Psalm 139:13-16 says, "For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, and my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from You, when I was made in secret, and skillfully wrought in the depths of the earth; Your eyes have seen my unformed substance; And in Your book were all written the days that were ordained for me, When as yet there was not one of them." God's word is the truth-not these lies Satan puts into our heads! Instead of being wrapped up in how we think we should look like, God wants us to be wrapped up in His truth. Laura says, "If we are living out Christ-likeness, it will be hard for us to find faults with what He has created. God wants us to think right in who we are. Beauty can hold us in bondage, but we're free to live out Christ! That is how we can have true beauty in Christ!"
"Fearfully and Wonderfully Made"
by Kendra Chica
A mirror is nothing but a looking glass into oneʼs heart,
just as oneʼs face shows oneʼs true feelings,
a mirror plays the same part;
yet when one looks into a mirror,
one may feel many things;
it is the choice to see things differently that wisdom only brings.
A man may look into a mirror,
and not pay his looks much heed;
though who knows a manʼs true thoughts,
oh not I indeed.
Yet a woman looks into a mirror,
and her story varies so;
for the things she feels within her heart,
only she and God do know.
A woman often looks into a mirror,
and sees what she is not;
a woman not to the standards of the world of men,
or how the young say “hot”.
A woman easily lives the lies,
the world tells her every day;
slowly she comes to hate herself,
and her joy,
it withers away.
How overcome a women is when her waist line is no longer thin,
she begins to compare herself to all around;
to her friends and closest kin.
And oh a womanʼs sorrow,
to see herself look so;
to have become so pale and large around,
how she hates to see her belly grow.
She begins to wish and even pray,
for a miracle it seems;
to look and feel so different,
from the figure that she sees.
Uncomfortable, and painfully aware of all who is around,
she judges brutally herself,
for her beauty still not found.
And not only does she judge her self,
but other women too;
only does she think inside her heart,
“I wish I looked like you”.
Is this not a womanʼs sorrow,
does it not plague us all;
to think that we should somehow look thin, lean and tall?
But see there is something better,
it has no dealings with fashion and looks;
you cannot find in a paper,
nor read in manʼs books.
But rather this “thing” called contentment,
and a joy that is true,
can be found in the almighty one;
He who created you.
For darling you are yet a child,
a most beloved child of God by far;
you have yet to learn the secret,
to being content with who you are.
God did not intend his daughters,
to pay oh so much ode;
to how we look and dress our selves,
with paint and things of gold.
Did God not say it better,
that a womanʼs charm is deceitful;
and her beauty all in vain,
but a woman who eagerly fears her Lord;
her name shall be praised.

Please mark your calendars for our special Christmas Ladies' Night Out on December 13th at 6:45pm.
Here is the recipe from the delicious pineapple cake we enjoyed at Ladies' Night Out:
PINEAPPLE CAKE - From the Kitchen of Joy Baird
Set oven to 350 degrees. Spray 9 x 13 pan.
Cake
1 ½ cup sugar
2 cups flour
2 tsp baking soda
¼ tsp salt
2 eggs
1 ½ cup crushed pineapple – do not drain
1 tsp vanilla
Mix ingredients together. Pour into 9 x 13 pan.
Topping
1 cup brown sugar
1 cup coconut
1 cup walnuts
Mix together and sprinkle over cake mixture.
Bake for 35-40 minutes.
Glaze
1 stick butter or margarine
¾ cup sugar
½ cup evaporated milk
Mix together in a small sauce pan and bring to a boil, stirring constantly. Boil for 1 minute. Pour over warm cake. Let set. Serve with Cool Whip.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Reminder. . . Ladies' Night Out Nov. 8th!


Just a reminder that Ladies' Night Out is tomorrow, November 8th at 6:45pm. You won't want to miss it! Childcare is provided!

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

November 8th is Ladies' Night Out!


Can you believe we are in November already?! The holidays and busyness are just around the corner! Before that happens, do you want to take an evening to relax, chat with friends, have your kids be watched by someone else (and for free!), eat a yummy dessert, and listen to a great speaker? Then come to Ladies' Night Out next Monday, November 8th at 6:45. So often we believe the lie that we are just not good enough. We think if we were just a little bit smarter, prettier, or thinner . . . then we would measure up! Laura Chica will be busting that lie with the truth of God's Word! Invite a friend and come to a wonderful evening!

Monday, October 18, 2010

"...with God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26

Last Monday night, many women came to Ladies' Night Out to eat a delicious dessert, sing praise songs, and hear Marlo Mitchell and Beth Wood talk about their recent trip to Israel.
One of the many beautiful tables that was decorated for the night.

It's so easy for us to say "I can't do this!" But God clearly states, "You can with my help!" Marlo and Beth both found themselves saying "I can't" while they were in Israel. They went there to show others the love of Christ, knowing there would be language barriers and safety concerns. Marlo and Beth even traveled to Gaza, one of the most dangerous places in Israel, and were able to minister to the secret believers who live there. So, instead of saying "I can't", they sought the Lord for strength and peace! Psalm 34:4 states, "I sought the Lord and He answered me, and delivered me from all my fears." And that's what He did for Marlo and Beth! He kept them safe and showed them what can be accomplished through Him! There may be times when you feel like you can't do something, whether it's grocery shopping when you have a million other things you need to do, paying bills when you may not have enough money, or even telling someone else about Jesus Christ. It's at all those times when we need to look to God for wisdom, peace and comfort! "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13.

How awesome to be in a room full of women and hearing them all sing praises to Our great God!
Women enjoying each other's company while eating a yummy dessert!

Applesauce Cake-from the kitchen of Robin Nobis
2 c. flour
1 ½ tsp. baking powder
½ tsp. baking soda
1 tsp. nutmeg
1 tsp. cinnamon
½ tsp. cloves, ground
¼ tsp. salt
¾ c. shortening
2 eggs
1 ½ c. brown sugar
1 1/3 c. applesauce

Sift together flour, baking powder, baking soda, nutmeg, cinnamon, cloves, and salt in small bowl and set aside. Cream together shortening, eggs and brown sugar. Add dry ingredients and applesauce. Beat for 2 minutes. Bake @ 350 degrees in 9 x 13 pan for 40-45 minutes until toothpick inserted in center comes out clean.

CREAM CHEESE FROSTING
3 ounces of cream cheese
1 Tbsp. milk
1 tsp. vanilla
dash of salt
2 ½ c. confectioners’ sugar
Blend cream cheese, milk, vanilla and salt. Gradually add sugar, beating until frosting is smooth. If necessary, stir in additional milk or confectioners’ sugar to thin or thicken frosting to desired spreading consistency. Spread onto cooled cake. Enjoy!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Reminder: Ladies' Night Out is TOMORROW!


Don't miss out on coming to Ladies' Night Out tomorrow at 6:45 p.m. Marlo Mitchell and Beth Wood will be sharing about their experience of sharing the Gospel in a foreign land. Come enjoy a delicious dessert, fellowship with other women, and great speakers! And bring a friend too! Childcare is provided. See you on Monday night!



Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Come to Ladies' Night Out on October 11th!


We may be tempted to say, "I can't do it!" But God says, "Yes, you can!" When God calls us He enables us! Beth Wood and Marlo Mitchell will share their testimony of how God equipped them to share the Gospel and encourage believers in a hostile land. Mark your calendars for October 11th at 6:45pm and come to Ladies' Night Out at Salem Heights Church. A yummy dessert will be served, along with sweet fellowship with other women. Childcare is provided. You won't want to miss this night!

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Ladies' Night Out-Were You There?

School is back in session and so is Ladies' Night Out! Wasn't our first time together so fabulous?! Jane Yao shared her testimony of how God's amazing grace rescued her from a demanding culture that honors on the highest of achievers. After trying to succeed academically for so many years, Jesus showed her He had already accomplished all that was needed on the cross, when He died for her sins. Jane's passion for our Savior was contagious, encouraging each of us to lay aside those things we think will satisfy, and replace it with a heart that looks to God alone!
L-R: Brian and Charissa Bernard with Jane Yao and her husband Super.
Below you will find the recipe for those delicious Peanut Butter and Jelly Bars!
*1 tube (16 1/2 oz)refrigerated peanut butter cookie dough
*1/2 cup peanut butter chips
*1 can (12 oz.) butter cream frosting
*1/4 cup creamy peanut butter
*1/4 cup seedless, raspberry jam (or any jam or jelly of your choice)
Directions: Let dough stand at room temperature for 5-10 minutes to soften. Press into an ungreased 9x13 baking dish; sprinkle with peanut butter chips. Bake at 375 degrees for 15-18 minutes or until lightly brown and edges are firm to the touch. Cool on a wire rack. In a small bowl beat frosting and peanut butter until smooth. Spread over bars. Drop jam by teaspoonfuls over frosting; cut through frosting with a knife to swirl the jam.
These bars were so yummy and they are easy to make! Perfect for an after school treat! Please mark your calendars for the next Ladies' Night Out on October 11th! You won't want to miss it!